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                | Mystery 
                    Worshipper: Misericord. The church: 
                    Archdiocesan 
                    Gay and Lesbian Outreach (AGLO) at Our 
                    Lady of Mount Carmel, Chicago, Illinois, USA.
 Denomination: 
                    Roman Catholic, Archdiocese 
                    of Chicago.
 The building: 
                    Mount Carmel is a beautiful English Tudor Gothic Revival style 
                    grouping of church, parish house and school dating from 1913, 
                    featuring stained glass windows, marble altars and a pipe 
                    organ. It was built as the North Side parish for English-speaking 
                    Catholic congregations, complementing all the separate Italian, 
                    German and Polish parishes being built at that time and earlier. 
                    Well maintained, it forms an attractive part of Chicago's 
                    North Side neighborhood.
 The church: 
                    The church has many ministries and outreaches that are well 
                    documented on its website. However, this mass was not a parish 
                    function but a service that draws gay, lesbian and like-minded 
                    folk from a large geographical area. This weekly mass and 
                    its supporting organization, AGLO, were established in 1988 
                    by former archbishop of Chicago, Joseph Cardinal Bernardin, 
                    as an outreach to gay and lesbian catholics and as a Roman 
                    Catholic Church-approved alternative to the Catholic gay organization 
                    Dignity. Tensions had arisen between Dignity and the Catholic 
                    Church with the result that Dignity was no longer allowed 
                    to hold their weekly mass in a Catholic church. Dignity now 
                    meets in a nearby Methodist church and AGLO meets at Mount 
                    Carmel. AGLO holds a mass at the church every Sunday evening 
                    at 7.00pm.
 The neighborhood: 
                    The church is in Lakeview East, the heart of the gay social 
                    and cultural center of Chicago on the North Side, bordering 
                    the shore of Lake Michigan. It contains shops, restaurants, 
                    bars and other businesses popular with lesbians and gay men. 
                    The area features upscale apartments and lofts, and has seen 
                    much gentrification in recent years, and larger businesses 
                    are beginning to move in to the area. The location of the 
                    church (and the free parking for mass attendees) is ideal 
                    for this religious and social organization serving gay and 
                    lesbian Catholics.
 The cast: 
                    The Revd Sam Cunningham, SVD, was the celebrant. He was assisted 
                    by Amy Rosenquist, cantor; James Ward, director of music; 
                    and Dan Weitendorf, director of liturgy.
 The date & time: 
                    Sunday, June 20, 2010, 7.00pm.
 
 What was the name of 
                    the service?
 Liturgy of the Eucharist, Twelfth Sunday in Ordinary Time.
 
 How full was the building?
 Approaching half full, with maybe 175 in attendance. The church 
                    might seat 450 when fully packed. The attendance appeared 
                    to be 90 per cent men.
 
 Did anyone welcome you 
                    personally?
 Yes. Saying "Welcome", a greeter handed me a service 
                    sheet and the AGLO weekly newsletter.
 
 Was your pew comfortable?
 Yes, nice old wood pews with the usual drop-down kneelers.
 
 How would you describe 
                    the pre-service atmosphere?
 Quiet, with some prayer, but more discreet greetings and chat.
 What were the exact 
                    opening words of the service?
 "Good afternoon and welcome to AGLO Chicago. Please take 
                    a moment to turn off or silence your cell phones."
 
 What books did the congregation 
                    use during the service?
 Red-bound Ritual Song from GIA Publications. These 
                    constitute a very complete Catholic service book and hymnals.
 
 What musical instruments 
                    were played?
 Organ (one of the two fine instruments in the church) and 
                    piano. The church has an EM Skinner pipe organ built in 1928, 
                    one of the last installations to be personally supervised 
                    by Skinner himself. The 54 rank three manual organ has been 
                    restored to its original state. In addition to this, in 1987 
                    the church acquired a mechanical action pipe organ built especially 
                    for them. Their volunteer choir was off for the summer.
 
 Did anything distract 
                    you?
 It was nice that the church is air conditioned, but I was 
                    apparently sitting right above the fan room. The floor and 
                    my pew vibrated noticeably with a very audible hum going on 
                    throughout the mass.
 
 Was the worship stiff-upper-lip, 
                    happy clappy, or what?
 Pretty standard novus ordo. There was a procession 
                    with crucifer and torch-bearers. They did ring sanctuary bells 
                    at the consecration, but alas no "smells". The hymns 
                    were a mix of Protestant hymns and typical St Louis Jesuit 
                    songs from the 1970s. The acclamations (Sanctus, Benedictus, 
                    Agnus Dei) were from the Land of Rest mass setting 
                    by the late Richard Proulx.
 
 Exactly how long was 
                    the sermon?
 12 minutes.
 
 On a scale of 1-10, 
                    how good was the preacher?
 5 Very listenable, but I felt like I was comforted and 
                    even flattered, not taught or challenged. I'm not sure how 
                    many men felt like putting on a dress afterward, but it was 
                    different.
 
 In a nutshell, what 
                    was the sermon about?
 The gospel reading was Luke 9:18-22 (some say Jesus was John 
                    the Baptist or Elijah, but Peter confesses him to be the Messiah). 
                    Father Cunningham related this to the movie (and musical) 
                    Billy Elliot, where a talented young boy must choose 
                    between his love of dance and his family. He emphasized acceptance 
                    and being who we truly are, and said that cross-dressing, 
                    men being effeminate, or women being "butch" are 
                    not to be looked down upon. Our private and public personas 
                    come together.
 
 Which part of the service 
                    was like being in heaven?
 The atmosphere was really very warm and welcoming, with a 
                    nice balance between that and giving people their space. Their 
                    practice is to join hands for the spoken Lord’s Prayer. Plus, 
                    I really liked the stained glass, remembering it from other 
                    visits (they have pictures of the stained glass on their website).
 
 And which part was like 
                    being in... er... the other place?
 Nothing too bad (unless you happen to be uncomfortable in 
                    a room of mostly gay men) except the vibrating floor and the 
                    air conditioning hum.
 
 What happened when you 
                    hung around after the service looking lost?
 The refreshments were announced for an adjoining building, 
                    but the group was very sociable in the narthex and on the 
                    steps outside, and with the warm weather much greeting ensued 
                    after the service. I was greeted by an acquaintance and introduced 
                    around.
 
 How would you describe 
                    the after-service coffee?
 Eventually I made my way to the social hall for green tea 
                    and a store-bought cookie plucked from the plastic tray. No 
                    coffe, (it was now about 8.20pm) but caffeinated soda was 
                    available. Refreshments could be improved upon, I suppose.
 
 How would you feel about 
                    making this church your regular (where 10 = ecstatic, 0 = 
                    terminal)?
 6 This mass is a regular church for many gay Catholics 
                    who apparently prefer it over their geographic parishes (or 
                    the other masses at the church). I would miss non-gay people, 
                    children and women. I prefer the Anglo-Catholic worship and 
                    music I am used to, but it is pretty appealing.
 
 Did the service make 
                    you feel glad to be a Christian?
 Oh yes, good worship, friendly folks and a beautiful setting 
                    are a very uplifting combination.
 
 What one thing will 
                    you remember about all this in seven days' time?
 I will find myself reflecting on how successfully Cardinal 
                    Bernardin navigated the troubled waters around the issues 
                    of gay Catholics, with both this group and the Dignity chapter 
                    flourishing two decades on. Probably not many prelates (including 
                    the current one) would have the skill to do the job as well.
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